What’s up sisters and brothers!
As we head into the 4thof July Holiday, I want to take a moment to talk about what I’m grateful for. When I started thinking about all the things I have to be grateful for, it made me think about how, if certain things had been different, how would my life be different today? That lead me to the visual of a decision tree (If this, then that) and so I’d like to start from the beginning:
- I was born here in the US-what if I had been born somewhere that didn’t enjoy the same freedoms we do? How would my life be different today?
- I was born to loving parents-what if I had been born to parents who hadn’t been ready or interested in a child? How would my life be different today?
- Throughout my life, I’ve enjoyed good health-what if I had fallen ill or been in some kind of accident? How would my life be different today?
- I’ve had the opportunity to matriculate through an undergraduate degree-what if I hadn’t had the same quality of schooling or the same quality of teaching and support?How would my life be different today?
- I’ve had and continue to meet amazing friends-had I not formed the relationships I’ve had over the years, how would my life be different today?
- I’ve had the opportunity to be employed and even to start businesses-what if I lived in a country with less opportunity and more barriers to entrepreneurship? How would my life be different today?
- I had the good fortune of meeting and marrying my wife-we have the good fortune of having a son. So many variables had to be right for these two things to become reality. How would my life be different today had they not?
- Both sets of our parents are still alive. While some of you may be questioning the validity of calling this a blessing, we’re fortunate to have them in our lives. How would our lives be different today if they weren’t with us?
Perspective is so valuable and so difficult to get and maintain. That’s why practicing gratitude is so worthwhile. I had Dr. Gregory Sadler, a philosopher in the Stoic tradition, on the Money Savage podcast last week. If you’re not familiar with Stoicism, it offers valuable tools for dealing with the many curveballs and setbacks that life throws at us. While not everything is going to go our way, it reminds us that we almost always have a choice in how we respond to adversity.
Please work to keep everything in perspective; the things you have influence over like family and community, as well as the things we have little influence over like national politics. Wishing you and your family a safe and happy Independence Day!
You Can Do It!